Darius Martin and the Doorway to Healthy Relationships
Darius Martin is an LA-based singer-songwriter pioneering a new wave of expansive alt R&B. Inspired by the work of great artists like Micheal Jackson and Stevie Wonder, his pop-laced hooks and island-drenched soundscapes are refreshing and timeless. Darius touches on the damaging effects of abusive relationships with his new single “Sparks Don’t Fly”. This song was created in partnership with the organization Doorways, which provides services to domestic violence survivors. Jejune got the chance to chat with Darius more about his work, inspirations, and advice for anyone in an unhealthy relationship.
Where are you based?
I’m based out of LA, and I spend a lot of time in Texas and New Mexico.
How did you get into singing? Has music always been a passion for you?
I got into music years ago before I was ever born! My grandparents met in a band and my dad had his own group when he was younger, so it’s always been in the blood. But to be honest, it wasn’t a passion until I was about 18 or 19 when I first started producing, free-styling, mixing, and mastering all my own stuff. But never sang, I always just rapped until I was 22 or 23.
How would you describe your sound to a new listener?
For someone who doesn’t know me, I would describe my sound as a unique wave of soundscapes, modern drums, and old R&B POP-like melodies.
We love your new single called "Sparks Don't Fly”, can you tell us about the inspiration behind the song?
I would say the inspiration for "Sparks Don’t Fly" came from the struggles I’ve faced and seen people I love face, as we’re all here surviving all types of abuse in any form.
What do you hope your audience receives from it?
I wanted everyone listening to know that we’re not alone in this world. This too shall pass, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Someone loves you and if no one around you does, know that I do.
Why did you think it was important to write a song that sheds light on those going through abusive relationships?
I felt it was important for me to stay true to myself and talk about abuse because I’ve been through it myself. I know what it’s like to feel like everything is against you and you can’t trust anyone. The feeling of knowing someone you love hurt you so badly that you can’t ever feel the same way you once did, and when the sparks don’t fly anymore so you have to move on and give it to God.
We also love that you teamed up with the nonprofit organization, Doorways, with the release of "Sparks Don't Fly".
Doorways was gracious enough to allow me to team up with them for this epic song on spreading awareness and changing people's lives who have experienced abuse or know someone who has. I couldn’t be more grateful to have the support!
Can you tell us a little bit about Doorways and your work with them?
My work with Doorways and the amazing community of people there was to highlight and bring awareness to abuse survivors. Their 24/7 hour hotline, ability to provide housing, counseling, and comprehensive support for survivors is incredible. The least I could do is generate funds and show my support the best I can.
October is Domestic Violence Awareness month, so as an advocate is there any advice you would share that might help those afraid to speak out?
To those afraid of speaking out against abuse, I only have this to say - No matter the situation, time of day, season, or if there’s snow and rain, the truth shall set you free. Give it to God to handle, it was never your burden to carry anyways.
What would you like more people to know about Domestic Violence?
I would like more people to be conscious about domestic violence, and the signs that come along with it. If we’re all a little more situationally aware of the tells, then we can prevent further abuse from happening. Look out for your friends and family, even the stranger walking down the street. At the end of the day, that’s someone’s son or daughter.
It has been a crazy few years. And there were spikes in Domestic Violence during COVID-19. How have you been staying in a positive headspace?
During this crazy time we live in, I stay in a positive headspace by meditating, praying, and making sure I’m checking in with God as much as possible. He can only help in areas of your life that you allow his hands to bless.
What is your motto in life?
My motto for life would be: “If It Was Easy Everybody Would Do It”
To stay connected with Darius Martin follow the links below:
Instagram: Dariusmartinofficial
Website: Darius Martin Bio